Making a decision to terminate a beloved pet’s life is never easy. I have cared for and humanely euthanized fifteen wonderful family animals…four dogs and eleven cats. This doesn’t count two stray outdoor cats and two rabbits. These creatures brought immeasurable joy to our household.
Recently I had to make arrangements to euthanize my last cat, Nebbiolo. He was about to turn sixteen, so yes, he had a nice long life with us. Nebbiolo started as a foster cat of my brother Ray and his partner, Pam. They cared for a litter of four tiny kittens who were found without their mother. Pam hand fed them all. As soon as I set eyes upon Frederick I knew he had to live with us when he was old enough. A beautiful Maine Coon cat, Frederick would later join five other cats in our home. Two of the other male kittens were adopted by Pam’s brother. Nebbiolo was the only kitten who returned to the Tompkins County SPCA.
After a number of weeks I felt the urge to check up on Nebbiolo. I wondered whether he had been adopted or was still looking for a permanent home. When I arrived at the shelter it didn’t take long to find Nebbiolo in a room with a large number of cats…also black cats. To this day I am not sure why they were all together in one room. It is understood that black cats are the least adopted, but it didn’t make sense to me. Nebbiolo came home with me and easily reconnected with Frederick and my other pets. At this time I also had two dogs. It was a full house…a small full house.
One by one, my pet household grew smaller, until Nebbiolo was the last man standing. He was a sweet, talkative, well behaved boy. He even got along with our daughter’s two cats whenever they visited. When he was feeling stronger, it was evident that he was still the master of his domain…the alpha cat.
Health problems developed. First asthma, which was medicated with prednisolone. I knew this would eventually cause more health issues, but it kept him free from breathing disasters. About two years ago his veterinarian found a mass on his liver. At that time it was thought to be cancerous. He was given a few months to live. As it turned out, the mass was benign and did not cause any significant problems. Unfortunately it was found a few months later, that he was diabetic. I became proficient at administering insulin injections twice a day…along with his steroid. He required food at the same time, which at first was not an issue.
As time progressed he became less interested in food. I purchased enormous amounts of different pates to motivate his hunger. He got to the point where he wasn’t eating enough to have his insulin injections. After a heartfelt discussion with his vet, we decided it was better to end his life before his systems totally shut down and caused catastrophic results.
The VCA Colonial Animal Hospital cared for him this past year. They provided 24-7 emergency care, which gave me some peace of mind. His previous fourteen years were spent under the also excellent care of the Briar Patch Veterinary Hospital. I was lucky to have both of these hospitals available for Nebbiolo.
My love of animals comes directly from my mother. We always had pets while I was growing up…dogs, cats, rabbits, birds, and fish were not uncommon. I am not sure how I will do without pets. Knowing there are so many animals in need of homes and love does not make it easy to go without pets. In time I may change my mind, but for now, I need to take a break and remember all my four-legged friends.
Right now I fondly remember Nebbiolo following me into the bathroom, waking me up at 4:30 AM, taking his pills voluntarily, watching birds in the sunroom, head butting me while I made the bed, joining me for TV watching and sleeping on the bed with me. He was a big cat, solid black, and still handsome on the day he left us. I miss him terribly.